Have you ever been in Brandy’s situation? The one that made her sang,”Have You Ever?”. It is a dangerous state to be found,confusing yet delightful. For those who are not in the know,let be try to put the chorus down in print.

“Have you ever loved somebody so much that it makes you cry
Have you ever needed something so badly you can’t sleep at night?
Have you ever tried to find the words but they don’t come out right?”

Most of us can relate with them,some very much dearly and closely. Others with only a passing fancy,but then all comprehends the message. It is always so disastrous being on the other side of the whip,but the the man holding it is not all that at home himself. It comes with responsibility for those who haven’t traded their conscience for a plate of porridge.

The one who loves in most cases wants an automatic reciprocation of his or her emotional thrust not minding the fact that the other party may see things from another perspective. In an attempt to ensure a return on his emotional investment, ends up portraying desperation and thus sends wrong signal to the party. Instead of what he seeks for an opposite of such is returned in manifold and invariably a crumpled relationship which otherwise would have resulted in a blissful union.


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